Which prompt is most effective for resolving a disagreement by seeking understanding of the other person's view?

• A. Where should we start?
• B. You must change now.
• C. I will decide the plan for you.
• D. Help me see your view more clearly.

Answer: (D)

Seeking understanding of the other person’s view through a prompt that invites them to share their perspective. “Help me see your view more clearly” does exactly that by inviting them to articulate their thoughts, feelings, and reasons in their own words. This approach lowers defensiveness, shows genuine curiosity, and keeps the conversation collaborative rather than confrontational, which is essential for resolving disagreements in recovery coaching. Prompts that push for immediate change or that take control of the plan tend to shut down the other person’s voice and escalate tension, while a simple logistical prompt about where to start doesn’t explicitly invite a deeper explanation of their viewpoint. So this option best promotes understanding and constructive dialogue.